Ok, a blog. Seems simple enough. And yet, what do I write about? This is a spur of the moment thing, you know. Never really thought of writing a blog. and I have to write in in 15 minutes too. UGH what to write, what to write. You know what? Instead of writing about fitness, or food, or amazing adventures that I DO NOT have, I'm going to ask questions. (I'm not sure if that is an acceptable thing to do, but I'll do it anyways.)

And that seems to start us of in the right direction. Who decides what is acceptable and what's not? And I don't mean who to love, or who are not acceptable because they are just bad terrible people, but I mean, who decides what's IN? I guess it is us, really. But we are all such followers. (I dont like to think of myself as such either. Not trying to be offensive, I promise.) I f one person wears something enough, someone else does it too. And then more people do it. And then it's suddenly "popular and awesome!" It doesn't really make sense, and yet it seems extremely obvious. We are all really what my friends call 'people-pleasers.' We can't bear the fact that someone might not like us. And on the outside we might say, "oh wow really? I don't CARE!" But on the inside, everyone is hurt by it. No one wants to be disliked. And I believe that is why we do such things. We follow.

(sorry for any spelling mistakes!!!!)